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Last Thursday night, at 3 a. An Amber alert had been sent out across Ontario, because a 2-year-old girl had been kidnapped after her abusive father had broken down the door to their home and assaulted her mother, leaving the mother bruised and bleeding on the floor. But as soon as the Amber Alert went out, the police station was bombarded with calls— by people complaining about being woken up.

So stop bothering me!

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To repeat: A little 2-year-old was missing, the situation was critical, and time was of the essence—yet people were complaining. As a society, we need some compassion. Let me explain. There is some teaching being promulgated that is deeply harmful to people. I talked about one such teaching on Friday on the blog, where Focus on the Family had published a book asking the innocent party in an affair to address their role in that affair.

I explained in detail why that approach is faulty and why that will contribute to an unhealthy marriage dynamic. I also talked about it at length on Twitter and Facebook first which is why I decided to write a post about it, because people were coming down hard on me on Facebook, and I wanted to explain. In most cases, I was being called out for being negative. Many of us thankfully! Most of us have faithful spouses. Most of us, indeed, have relatively good marriages.

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But what if the criticism is NOT unnecessary? After all, that little girl and her mother were only two people in a province of 9 million. Are they really that important? But Jesus sees that bleeding woman. And Jesus tells a very similar story of a person lying bleeding on the ground, being ignored by the religious people, but being helped by the secular people. In Adult wants sex Wray world today, religious people are often giving abused women and those married to sexually promiscuous spouses guilt and blame, while the secular world is helping them with healthy advice.

But as they were doing so, as they were going about their business, they would come across religious leaders that were hurting the very people that Jesus and Paul were trying to minister to. And so they would speak up—not because they enjoyed fighting the powers that be, but because they had compassion on those who were being hurt by these bad teachings.

Jesus, in Luke 11, had just finished talking to crowds, telling them about freedom they should have with God. And, while He was in the middle of that, a Pharisee asked him to come and dine with him. You foolish people!

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Did not the one who made the outside make the inside also? But now as for what is inside you—be generous to the poor, and everything will be clean for you. You should have practiced the latter without leaving the former undone. Look at what Jesus is upset about: the Pharisees have lived by the letter of the law, but they have neglected justice and love, and they are loading people down with burdens that they will not help them lift.

They are hurting people. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to. You travel over land and sea to win a single convert, and when you have succeeded, you make them twice as much of hell as you are. I am astonished that you are so quickly deserting the one who called you to live in the grace of Christ and are turning to a different gospel— which is really no gospel at all. Evidently some people are throwing you into confusion and are trying to pervert the gospel of Christ.

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Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ. What gospel is it that they are spreading? That people are adding rules to how we should behave, and putting up walls between people and God. And it has to be stopped. Paul walked up to him and rebuked him in public. It was done for all to see! And then Paul even wrote about the incident, so even more knew.

Because the gospel was at stake, and when something wrong has been said or done in public Peter not eating with Gentilesit has to be corrected in public.

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False teaching is not something that falls under the Matthew 18 directions about how to handle it when someone offends you, because the offense is not personal, between two people. The offense is about the gospel, and in that case, it must be called out publicly.

False teaching is NOT a Matthew 18 issue—where we address things in private first. Matthew 18 is about personal offences. Yes, Jesus and Paul were calling for unity, but that did not mean that they failed to address false teaching. And, in fact, the Adult wants sex Wray that they railed the most about was the teaching that put people in bondage yet again. Whether we want to admit it or not, there are many people who are being abused or neglected and the church is making it worse.

If you find yourself angry at people bringing up uncomfortable topics for the sake of the downtrodden or the abused—and this will sound harsh—you are showing a lack of compassion for the people whose lives are a living hell because of their torment that you have the privilege to ignore. Even if it disturbs you. Even if you were enjoying your rest. If your husband has an affair, are you partially to blame?

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I found this rather disturbing, and posted it both on Facebook and Twitter. I had another post all planned for today—how a husband can know if his wife has had an orgasm. But when an organization as influential as Focus on the Family says something this off-base, I feel like I have a responsibility to respond, because I know that this message is hurting people. My issue is with the way that Focus on the Family chose to introduce the book—just those few words. Many people, in the comments, were conflating the two. It is. The first step must be repentance. No ifs, ands, or buts.

If Focus on the Family had said something like:. He had an affair and repented. She found the strength to forgive—and the humility to rebuild the marriage. But the way that Focus worded that status, the thing that mattered was not his repentance but her acknowledging her role. Cheating is a sin that one person does. Nobody else causes it.

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We are solely responsible for our own sin. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to depart into hell.

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I agree. Today we did a bit of a different one. Rather than having all of our segments, we just talked about one big thing: the earthquake in Christian circles where the purity culture is falling apart. Now, I believe that sex is meant for marriage. Josh Harris in many ways is the big face of the purity movement, writing the book I Kissed Dating Goodbye when he was only 21, and then following up with Boy Meets Girl, with lots of rules about courtship.

Josh has also disavowed those books, and is reconsidering much about the evangelical world right now. I appreciate his humility. I am sorry for what he and Shannon are going through. I am sorry that many are gossiping about it. And so Adult wants sex Wray we wanted to do in this podcast was NOT talk about Josh and Shannon we mentioned it at the beginning, but then moved on and instead talk about the bigger issue: how do we decide what to keep about the purity culture, and what to discard?

Rebecca and Joanna ed me for the podcast, and we debated lots of things about the purity culture. Again, I do believe that sex is meant for marriage. But there is so much wrong with the way we talk about purity, as my daughter Katie summed up here:.

And that blessing is in earthly circumstances. Things will go well for you. Job did nothing wrong, and yet his life still was filled with hardship when everything he loved was taken from him. Sometimes life is just difficult. A better way of looking at all of this is with my book How Big Is Your Umbrellawhich I wrote Adult wants sex Wray the things that I yelled at God when my son was dying, and what God whispered back.

But what the purity culture said was that the reason that marriages are falling apart is because people are dating and doing things the wrong way. Sometimes sex is, too. I know so many on this blog who waited for marriage and then found out that they had vaginismus, making sex very painful.

I know others who found that a spouse had a really low libido, or that they had a low libido. Or they can just never figure out how to reach orgasm. I hope this podcast can contribute to that discussion. I wrote the initial blog post at 19, and wrote the book at Sometimes, families did great when they had deep, theological talks multiple times a day.

Sometimes, families were fine even if the kids hardly ever had heart-to-hearts with their parents. Sometimes, families thrived on a pattern of family devotionals and prayer together. Others just never really got into it but their kids turned out great too! Because you know what?

You, with your background and your family circumstance, are going to raise your children very differently than I will raise mine. If you are interested in reading the stories in my book and starting a new conversation about what general trends we tend to see among healthy families, do check out my book.

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